• Fuming Fran

    I just have to chime in here. I had the same issue for decades, reliably orgasmic during solo play, but 99% of the time unable to climax with a partner. Two things helped: one partner kindly suggested I “give myself a hand” during intercourse and provide clitoral stimulation; the second big help was realizing it takes time for me to establish trust with a partner. Without that trust, I was inclined to give up early and just fake it. Having an orgasm with a partner, to me, feels in some ways like giving up control so its really important that I know this is a safe person to let go with. It took six months before I was able to start coming regularly with my husband. He was patient, which enabled me to be patient with myself.

    February 12, 2014
    • yes, yes, yes

      February 13, 2014

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