• Dreaming Solo

    Ahhhh!! But how do I NOT worry about whether it will sort itself out, or be revealed?? I’m afraid I’ll just feel an attraction to a woman because I’m too scared to be authentically myself and the last thing I want is to end up in another relationship for the wrong reasons!

    March 20, 2014
    • I don’t know how to help you not worry but I can tell you that the better you get at being true to yourself the less you will worry. Not because you know how things will turn out but because you’ll increasingly believe that the way they turn out will work for you. And I don’t know how to control attractions, really. The only thing we can control is what we do about them. You can’t make yourself be attracted to someone anymore than you can stop yourself from being attracted. This is probably the big reason why we get in so much sexual trouble. But we can focus on taking the best care of ourselves that is possible and believe that if we do this, that our highest good is the natural outcome of it, no matter who is actually in charge of how this all works out.

      March 24, 2014

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